When the One You Love Is Gone
Let me stop your self-abuse right now.
- Someone You Love Is Gone by Gurjinder Basran | Penguin Random House Canada.
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No one can compete with the love you two had. You can't be replaced; there will always be only one you. They might try to replicate what you two had, but there is only one original Starry Night and you'll always be the masterpiece foolishly left behind. Believe and know that you are enough, love lost is not love failed. I look at you and I don't see someone heartbroken , or obsessed I see someone who loves selflessly and that's the most breathtaking love from the purest soul.
You put someone first before yourself. But now it's your turn to tuck that love into the back of your heart and move forward.
I know you're in pain, I know you love them and guess what? They love you too. Sometimes we selfishly break each other because time wasn't on our side, or maybe there is another complicated reason for the way your heart broke.
Go live, really live there is so much to see in this world than just those eyes you crave. This sense of familiarity can cause us to be one foot in and one foot out of our relationship. To avoid splitsville, you have to put both feet back in where laziness once was and commit to working on the relationship. But you cannot be a one-man band. Your partner must have the same goals, aspirations and motivations.
Lack of conversation: Conversations intimately connect people. If we lose this piece of our relationship, then there is no common ground for us to meet and find each other. Conversations are what make us smart, interesting and sexy to one another. When we start telling outside sources all we used to tell our partner, this is a clue the love is dying. If you reach for your partner to share your thoughts and feelings and there is no interest, to save your relationship you will need seek help to get these parts of the relationship in sync again or consider if its time to call it quits.
Obligation sex: Once sex becomes a task, the love and lust in the relationship quickly go downhill. Men connect emotionally through sex and women connect emotionally through attention outside of the bedroom. It's a catch For a man to be attentive outside of the bedroom requires he have a sexual relationship with his partner and for a woman to want to have a sexual relationship with her man she needs attention outside of the bedroom.
If no balance is found, sex becomes an uneventful, passionless task.
Writing about psychological states demands considerable skill from a writer in order to avoid the inner voices of characters from sounding self-absorbed or just boring. Someone You Love Is Gone avoids this on the most part, while serving up characters with whom we can empathize, even when we recognize unappealing glimpses of our own neurosis staring back at us. The ability alone to weave this moral complexity into her stories makes Gurjinder Basran a novelist worth reading.
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